This is what has happened so far today.
The old cat jumped on his chair after breakfast, he stroked it and spoke perfectly calmly and normally to it saying: ‘You’re always jumping on my chair aren’t you, you want some peace and quiet too!’
He helped with the chores as he always does.
Me: Can you please tell me if you still mean what you said on Friday [that he would leave] because all this not knowing is doing my head in.
Hubby: Not sure.
Me: would you like me to make an appointment to see someone at Relate?
Hubby: No
Me: Why not?
Hubby: Because I don’t want to talk to someone at Relate.
Me: Do you agree that we have a problem with our marriage?
Hubby: Yes, but I think it’s fixable.
Me: how?
Hubby I’ll tell you when you get back from Brussels [I am going to be in Brussels Thursday till Sunday next week]
Me: do you want me to cancel the trip and not go [I have asked this before]
Hubby: No
Me: are you sure?
Hubby: Yes, that’s why I said we’d talk when you get back.
He has now gone back to his attic.
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Sunday morning
by husbandorcat
@ 16 Oct. 2005 - 11:01:48
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This sounds so sad. Don't give up the kitten, way too cute..
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2005-10-18 @ 11:48
2005-10-18 @ 11:48
Give. Me. Strength. Obviously some sort of power struggle going on here. He said no to the kitten (squeeeee! by the way. That's the noise we make in our house when we see iddle baby animals 
) but you got it anyway so now you are going to have to suffer a little. I think this sort of thing goes on up and down the country. I'm the sort of stroppy tart that if someone says they're going I tell them to shut the door on their way out, because I don't like mind games.
I wonder what will happen next? I'm sorry that you are going through this and hope that your husband can sit down and talk to you about everything rather than running away to his attic.
Good luck and best wishes.
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