Before you ask, yes, same husband, same cat.
This does not mean everything is hunky-dory all of a sudden, but as someone said to me, there is now 'good will' on both sides. At least till Christmas is out of the way.
The lack of (cyber) communication is not because I have suddenly got less introspective but because I have been horribly busy and when I'm not i tend to hunker down in the kitchen rather than venturing into the frozen wastes of the attic where the computer is.
Tomorrow Melinda gets her last outing (for the foreseeable future) to Brussels. Have reverted into Belinda-mode sufficiently that I am feeling very apprehensive and stressed about it - also I hate packing.
Back on Tuesday - maybe there will be more updates after then.