tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-11-21:/What if...your husband says he is leaving, and you feel... excited?...you realise he’s bluffing, and you feel... disappointed?...you look at your life and think... how the hell did I end up here?...you look out at the big wide world, and feel... fascinated, and terrified all at once?What do you do?You start a blog, of course.Obvious, really.MokoFeed2009-11-21T02:51:25+01:00tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-02-02:/2008/02/02/groundhog_day~3667723/#c8985179Melinda-solo2009-02-02T20:01:37+01:002009-02-02T20:01:37+01:00It took a long, hard road to get where I am now. Nothing happens overnight.<br> You'll get there, if it's right for you. Don't give up.tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-02-02:/2008/02/02/groundhog_day~3667723/#c8979840brokendownangel2009-02-02T11:41:17+01:002009-02-02T11:41:17+01:00Oh my God, just found this blog and almost cried for the life i want but cannot yet have. My daughter is too young for me to leave and i have a husband who is good and kind and loves me, he does nothing wrong, but still i rail against my gilded cage and want to be..... metag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-01-01:/2009/01/01/the-spare-room-5306095/#c8682272Usksider2009-01-01T21:41:12+01:002009-01-01T21:41:12+01:00Yes... better late than never, eh?tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-01-01:/2009/01/01/the-spare-room-5306095/#c8682103Melinda-solo2009-01-01T21:09:26+01:002009-01-01T21:09:26+01:00Thank goodness for that! :yes: ;)tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-01-01:/2009/01/01/the-spare-room-5306095/#c8682096Melinda-solo2009-01-01T21:08:33+01:002009-01-01T21:08:33+01:00well... it was more of an invitation to make an invitation... I'm sure you should have got it... but anyway, you got there in the end :yes:tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-01-01:/2009/01/01/the-spare-room-5306095/#c8681858la_spice2009-01-01T20:38:06+01:002009-01-01T20:38:06+01:00I feel almost human again :)tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-01-01:/2009/01/01/the-spare-room-5306095/#c8681804Usksider2009-01-01T20:30:49+01:002009-01-01T20:30:49+01:00Invitation? I'm confused... nothing new there then! :))tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-01-01:/2009/01/01/the-spare-room-5306095/#c8681722Melinda-solo2009-01-01T20:21:28+01:002009-01-01T20:21:28+01:00Thank you! :)<br> Hope you got the invitation...tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-01-01:/2009/01/01/the-spare-room-5306095/#c8681695Melinda-solo2009-01-01T20:18:42+01:002009-01-01T20:18:42+01:00I hope so - but this has been a decidedly surreal day :roll:<br> Hope you enjoyed your old soak, you old... friend ;)tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-01-01:/2009/01/01/the-spare-room-5306095/#c8681246la_spice2009-01-01T19:26:25+01:002009-01-01T19:26:25+01:00You've done it - well done - this time the timing was right for you. :yes:tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-01-01:/2009/01/01/the-spare-room-5306095/#c8677909Foxwriter2009-01-01T10:58:12+01:002009-01-01T10:58:12+01:00Good luck my friend. I will be thinking of you. xxtag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2009-01-01:/2009/01/01/the-spare-room-5306095/#c8677864Usksider2009-01-01T10:48:44+01:002009-01-01T10:48:44+01:00Good girl... stay brave... stay focussed. :yes:tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-31:/2008/12/31/full-circle-5302280/#c8675935la_spice2008-12-31T20:27:45+01:002008-12-31T20:27:45+01:00Cheers - Happy New YOU! :)tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-31:/2008/12/31/full-circle-5302280/#c8675928husbandorcat2008-12-31T20:26:27+01:002008-12-31T20:26:27+01:00Yes, me too! It will happen!<br> It's time to take a little blogland surreality and make it my reality.<br> Take care,<br> xxtag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-31:/2008/12/31/full-circle-5302280/#c8672765la_spice2008-12-31T14:45:04+01:002008-12-31T14:45:04+01:00Another positive post - roll on 2009 when I'm sure we'll meet :yes:tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-31:/2008/12/31/full-circle-5302280/#c8671348husbandorcat2008-12-31T12:28:07+01:002008-12-31T12:28:07+01:00Thanks.<br> So do I!<br> hope you're able to celebrate in fine style ;)tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-31:/2008/12/31/full-circle-5302280/#c8671335husbandorcat2008-12-31T12:26:40+01:002008-12-31T12:26:40+01:00Thanks!<br> hope you read the link too.<br> I got drawn into those time passages again... but it's good to see how much has changed, but how much is still recognisable.<br> xxtag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-31:/2008/12/31/full-circle-5302280/#c8670978deleted user2008-12-31T11:43:28+01:002008-12-31T11:43:28+01:00yes, good post, I look forward to the ones next yeartag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-31:/2008/12/31/full-circle-5302280/#c8670830roadrocket2008-12-31T11:23:01+01:002008-12-31T11:23:01+01:00A really nice start to 2009. Very Positive!!!<br> <br> RRXXtag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-30:/2008/12/30/love-hate-fear-5296692/#c8666227husbandorcat2008-12-30T19:35:01+01:002008-12-30T19:35:01+01:00don't worry about it.<br> Just be grateful that you did.<br> L<br> xxtag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-30:/2008/12/30/love-hate-fear-5296692/#c8666204Foxwriter2008-12-30T19:33:30+01:002008-12-30T19:33:30+01:00Have I missed something.....?tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-30:/2008/12/30/love-hate-fear-5296692/#c8664744roadrocket2008-12-30T16:51:14+01:002008-12-30T16:51:14+01:00As far as I'm concerned she's gone now and she'd better damn well heed my warning to her on the message I sent her or the lies and poison she showers like confetti will be coming back to bite her. I agree though that the operative word is sorrow not anger. Being angry means you are giving thought about the person and expending energy, and this person deserves neither of those.<br> <br> Good on you mate. I'm sorry I ever doubted you and I'm pleased as punch to have you back on my friends list. It's made my day. You are truly honest and kind and that's rare in both the online world and the offline world as we both found out to our cost. Let's now all move on...<br> <br> RRXX tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-30:/2008/12/30/love-hate-fear-5296692/#c8664668joebangles2008-12-30T16:38:45+01:002008-12-30T16:38:45+01:00I like that post HOC.tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-30:/2008/12/30/love-hate-fear-5296692/#c8662500deleted user2008-12-30T12:11:53+01:002008-12-30T12:11:53+01:00[[[Big Hugs2You]]] xoxoxtag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-30:/2008/12/30/love-hate-fear-5296692/#c8662203Melinda_blog2008-12-30T11:33:06+01:002008-12-30T11:33:06+01:00Thank you :)<br> i'm just about to post something on Melinda...<br> not written by me, but something I found serendiptiouslytag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-30:/2008/12/30/love-hate-fear-5296692/#c8661813la_spice2008-12-30T10:34:49+01:002008-12-30T10:34:49+01:00A good post :yes:tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-30:/2008/12/29/accepting-people-5291662/#c8661056husbandorcat2008-12-30T08:41:26+01:002008-12-30T08:41:26+01:00It's going, thanks :)<br> Everything a bit surreal. Still in limbo land at present, until the last of the 'festivities' are out of the way. And I've been a bit preoccupied by other distractions. <br> But I'll get there.<br> xxtag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-30:/2008/12/29/accepting-people-5291662/#c8660270Foxwriter2008-12-30T00:31:47+01:002008-12-30T00:31:47+01:00How is it going?tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-29:/2008/12/29/accepting-people-5291662/#c8657182husbandorcat2008-12-29T18:13:18+01:002008-12-29T18:13:18+01:00And in the case of my BiL, it can't be a moment too soon! ;)<br> But the good news is... I just had a call from my sister. And he's not coming. She's coming, the niece, husband and kids are coming, the brother and sister in law are, but... not the BiL!<br> RESULT!!!tag:husbandorcat.blog.co.uk,2008-12-29:/2008/12/29/accepting-people-5291662/#c8655192modone19662008-12-29T13:35:00+01:002008-12-29T13:35:00+01:00In the end, my sweetest friend, everyone I know goes away!<br> Trent Reznor Nine Inch Nails ( or Johnny Cash but that version is pants - try looking for Sad Kermit on myspace )