Husband or cat?

In response to:Groundhog Day

Mon, 02 Feb 2009 20:01:37 +0100

It took a long, hard road to get where I am now. Nothing happens overnight.
You'll get there, if it's right for you. Don't give up.

In response to:Groundhog Day

Mon, 02 Feb 2009 11:41:17 +0100

Oh my God, just found this blog and almost cried for the life i want but cannot yet have. My daughter is too young for me to leave and i have a husband who is good and kind and loves me, he does nothing wrong, but still i rail against my gilded cage and want to be..... me

In response to:The Spare Room

Thu, 01 Jan 2009 21:41:12 +0100

Yes... better late than never, eh?

In response to:The Spare Room

Thu, 01 Jan 2009 21:09:26 +0100

Thank goodness for that! :yes: ;)

In response to:The Spare Room

Thu, 01 Jan 2009 21:08:33 +0100

well... it was more of an invitation to make an invitation... I'm sure you should have got it... but anyway, you got there in the end :yes:

In response to:The Spare Room

Thu, 01 Jan 2009 20:38:06 +0100

I feel almost human again :)

In response to:The Spare Room

Thu, 01 Jan 2009 20:30:49 +0100

Invitation? I'm confused... nothing new there then! :))

In response to:The Spare Room

Thu, 01 Jan 2009 20:21:28 +0100

Thank you! :)
Hope you got the invitation...

In response to:The Spare Room

Thu, 01 Jan 2009 20:18:42 +0100

I hope so - but this has been a decidedly surreal day :roll:
Hope you enjoyed your old soak, you old... friend ;)

In response to:The Spare Room

Thu, 01 Jan 2009 19:26:25 +0100

You've done it - well done - this time the timing was right for you. :yes:

In response to:The Spare Room

Thu, 01 Jan 2009 10:58:12 +0100

Good luck my friend. I will be thinking of you. xx

In response to:The Spare Room

Thu, 01 Jan 2009 10:48:44 +0100

Good girl... stay brave... stay focussed. :yes:

In response to:Full circle

Wed, 31 Dec 2008 20:27:45 +0100

Cheers - Happy New YOU! :)

In response to:Full circle

Wed, 31 Dec 2008 20:26:27 +0100

Yes, me too! It will happen!
It's time to take a little blogland surreality and make it my reality.
Take care,
xx

In response to:Full circle

Wed, 31 Dec 2008 14:45:04 +0100

Another positive post - roll on 2009 when I'm sure we'll meet :yes:

In response to:Full circle

Wed, 31 Dec 2008 12:28:07 +0100

Thanks.
So do I!
hope you're able to celebrate in fine style ;)

In response to:Full circle

Wed, 31 Dec 2008 12:26:40 +0100

Thanks!
hope you read the link too.
I got drawn into those time passages again... but it's good to see how much has changed, but how much is still recognisable.
xx

In response to:Full circle

Wed, 31 Dec 2008 11:43:28 +0100

yes, good post, I look forward to the ones next year

In response to:Full circle

Wed, 31 Dec 2008 11:23:01 +0100

A really nice start to 2009. Very Positive!!!

RRXX

In response to:Love, hate, fear

Tue, 30 Dec 2008 19:35:01 +0100

don't worry about it.
Just be grateful that you did.
L
xx

In response to:Love, hate, fear

Tue, 30 Dec 2008 19:33:30 +0100

Have I missed something.....?

In response to:Love, hate, fear

Tue, 30 Dec 2008 16:51:14 +0100

As far as I'm concerned she's gone now and she'd better damn well heed my warning to her on the message I sent her or the lies and poison she showers like confetti will be coming back to bite her. I agree though that the operative word is sorrow not anger. Being angry means you are giving thought about the person and expending energy, and this person deserves neither of those.

Good on you mate. I'm sorry I ever doubted you and I'm pleased as punch to have you back on my friends list. It's made my day. You are truly honest and kind and that's rare in both the online world and the offline world as we both found out to our cost. Let's now all move on...

RRXX

In response to:Love, hate, fear

Tue, 30 Dec 2008 16:38:45 +0100

I like that post HOC.

In response to:Love, hate, fear

Tue, 30 Dec 2008 12:11:53 +0100

[[[Big Hugs2You]]] xoxox

In response to:Love, hate, fear

Tue, 30 Dec 2008 11:33:06 +0100

Thank you :)
i'm just about to post something on Melinda...
not written by me, but something I found serendiptiously

In response to:Love, hate, fear

Tue, 30 Dec 2008 10:34:49 +0100

A good post :yes:

In response to:Accepting people

Tue, 30 Dec 2008 08:41:26 +0100

It's going, thanks :)
Everything a bit surreal. Still in limbo land at present, until the last of the 'festivities' are out of the way. And I've been a bit preoccupied by other distractions.
But I'll get there.
xx

In response to:Accepting people

Tue, 30 Dec 2008 00:31:47 +0100

How is it going?

In response to:Accepting people

Mon, 29 Dec 2008 18:13:18 +0100

And in the case of my BiL, it can't be a moment too soon! ;)
But the good news is... I just had a call from my sister. And he's not coming. She's coming, the niece, husband and kids are coming, the brother and sister in law are, but... not the BiL!
RESULT!!!

In response to:Accepting people

Mon, 29 Dec 2008 13:35:00 +0100

In the end, my sweetest friend, everyone I know goes away!
Trent Reznor Nine Inch Nails ( or Johnny Cash but that version is pants - try looking for Sad Kermit on myspace )